The Danger of Meism

As a small child my mother took me one day shopping with her.  During this outing to our pre-Wal-Mart general store named Howard Brothers as a 5 year old I decided that I needed a tag for the back of my bicycle.  However, selections that day were limited and they did not have Rickey or Rick.  I was not a patient young man.  In other words, I wanted what I wanted when I wanted!  (Ever been there? That you would admit!)   So as a creative genius I determined since my name is Rickey Edward Camp that I could simply use Edward, which they had.  In the most tactful manner I knew as a five year old I sought to convince my mother that even though I went by Rickey a bike tag with Edward would suffice.  Unfortunately, I thought at the time, my mom did not understand my reasoning nor did she succumb to my persuasion.  Her answer was a definitive, “NO!”  How dare her say no to a “valid” request such as mine. 

Not to be content with a negative response, I felt if I showed my grave disappointment in her denial of my request I might be more persuasive so I began to have a rather dejected and despondent disposition.  (That is a politically correct way of saying I pouted!)  However, a rather ornery attitude followed this period of pouting.  It wasn’t until my mom decided I needed to be taken behind the trash cans on the hardware aisle for an attitude adjustment that I could understand my mother’s point of view.  While that was not a moment I enjoyed or even appreciated at the time, I am grateful that mom understood the bigger picture in order to help prepare me for greater issues in life than not getting a bicycle tag that particular morning.

I recall a passage in the book of Judges where Samson as a young man saw something he wanted desperately.  What he desired was of greater consequence than a bicycle tag with the wrong name on it.  He wanted a young girl from a neighboring country which worshipped another god.  This young lady from the land of Philistia appealed to Samson so he went back to his mother and dad asking them to obtain her for him as his wife.  Samson’s parents knew the commands of God to not intermarry with foreigners and tried to reason with Samson.  However, in Judges 14:3 Samson demanded of his parents by saying, “Get her for me, because I want her.”  Here is a young man, not a five year old boy, pitching a fit to have his way because it “pleases” him.  While that is a sad picture, the more troubling issue is that his parents succumb to the wishes of a demanding son rather than teach him the deferral of pleasures, especially those which detracted him from obedience to God.  I wonder what would have happened to Samson later in life, especially with Delilah, had he learned to resist the temptations to disobey God.

When I think of this in relation to where I am today, I am thankful to how my parents taught me as a young boy the important lessons of life.  As I contemplate though I am fearful that too often I forget that lesson in Howard Brothers.  Are there times as an adult when I am demanding of my ways when God has something greater in mind?  Are there times when I am impatient with the directives of God because they do not fit into my schedule of activities and timeline?  Am I intolerable of things when I do not see the bigger picture?  God has not placed me in here to satisfying my longings.  His plan is for me to glorify Him by drawing unregenerate people to Him.  May my ways and plans never seek to glorify self but rather to honor a deserving and holy God in all ways.

Pastor Ric

  

Let Me Do That For You

When I began working on my master’s degree in seminary one of the first classes I took my first semester was a preaching class under Dr. Joel Gregory.  One of the assignments in the class was to take Philippians 2:1-11 and exegete it with the final product being a message from these scriptures.  While I was not extremely familiar with that passage at the time, when the class was over I felt as though it had become a favorite of mine from the New Testament.  Since then I have preached from the passage numerous times and used it as a reference in many more messages.  While the underlying principle for this passage deals with the role Jesus played in becoming man to provide salvation and reconciliation for unregenerate mankind, there are several factors which are profound teaching points within themselves ranging from unity to servanthood. 

The critical point comes in verse 5 where Paul tells the church of Philippi to have the same attitude as Christ Jesus.  That attitude is one of a servant.  This is a reminder from where Jesus stated about himself in Matthew 20:28 that “…the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve…”  Paul is stressing to the Philippians that importance of having an attitude of serving one another.  As I shared this thought with our staff this past week I related the story of when Lisa and I went to San Juan, Puerto Rico for our anniversary last year.  While in San Juan we enjoyed the luxury of staying in a nice resort where individuals were charged to serve us whether cleaning our room, bring food or sodas to us, or providing directions to various sights.  We even splurged and received a full-body massage at the spa.  Lisa and I thought, “We could get used to this type of treatment!”  Unfortunately, it only lasted for a few days while we were there on vacation.  The point is that we, as individuals, often enjoy being waited on by someone.  That is our nature often times, though not always. 

However, we are told where Jesus’ purpose in coming was not to be served, but to serve.  In like manner, we are to take on that same thought process or attitude in our daily lives.  We are to serve one another.  Jesus did not have to serve us.  He was of royalty.  He was not just a king; He was the King of Kings.  However, Paul reminds us in Philippians 2:6-7 that instead of holding onto or clutching His royalty selfishly that He emptied Himself of all rights by “assuming the form of a slave, taking on the likeness of men.” 

If we are to imitate Christ in our lives, then we must empty ourselves of our self!  Too often the issue of pride stands in the way.  We sit by and say, “Why should I serve him/her? He/She never serves me!”  That is a prideful attitude!  John Ortberg once said, “Pride destroys our capacity to love.”  When we boil it down serving someone is born out of love.  We must never let a deserving attitude or sense of entitlement enter the picture.  We will never deserve to be served, especially by God.  However, that is what He chose to do for us, out of pure love rooted in humility.  In verse 8 we read that He humbled Himself to the point of death for us. Why, because He loved us!   

Over the course of the next several days to week why not look for ways to serve someone else.  You might have opportunity to serve them a meal, clean up their mess after a meal, or offer to mow their lawn.  If fact the act could be as simple as letting someone take your place in line at the check-out.  Serving is about putting others first.  Jesus never thought about what advantage He would gain in coming to earth in the form of a servant to die for us.  He looked at how it would benefit us!  Why not do something to benefit someone else this week.

Have a Servants’ Heart,

Pastor Ric

Choosing

Over the course of time events take place in our lives which cause us to evaluate our relationship with God, decide whether our beliefs about God and His Word are real, or abandon our beliefs about God for a new set of beliefs.  Often these visceral moments are brought on by a tragic event or series of events, although they can come from a contemplative moment in life.  As I spoke with the officers of Dayshift B this past week at the Florence Police Department during roll call, I asked them to consider this scenario where we are called on to make a decision whether we believe the Word of God to be true or not.  While we often do not want to admit it, there are times when we will look at the Word of God and want to believe portions of it to be true yet wish to overlook them or ignore certain aspects of His Word. 

Several years ago I heard a preacher speak on this subject and he called it “cafeteria style” Christianity.  His reference to this smorgasbord is that while we go through the line of a cafeteria we often will select the foods which we enjoy and suit our palate.  At the same time, we choose not to select the foods which we find repulsive.  For instance, the times I have gone to a “potluck dinner” or a buffet style restaurant I quickly look over the selections and determine what I do not want; you know those foods which are not on the acceptable list for me stomach and taste buds.  As I peruse the selections I am quick to eliminate liver, onions, (casseroles with onions), beets, squash, cold pasta dishes, chicken/tuna/ham salads (because the generally have celery or onions in them) and lately (out of necessity) fried foods!  (Oh how I miss fried chicken!) 

Unfortunately, we let this same mentality creep into our spiritual life in regards to the Word of God.  We often make statements that we agree with the Bible.  However, when it comes to living out the Word of God and letting it become the mantra for our daily lives we choose to ignore certain portions of the His Word.  For instance, we have no problem loving our neighbor, as long as they are nice to us.  In addition, we have no problem submitting to God, as long as His will lines up with our will.  Or, we are quick to take up our cross so long as the cross is pretty, light weight, and conducive with our schedules.  We are even willing to deny ourselves, if we don’t care for that which we deny (i.e. the onion things in life!)  Oh and let’s not forget the “forgive our enemies part.”  We are willing to forgive if….if…well, we have a hard time with that one all the time.   

God does not expect us to pick and choose His commands, directives, and Words of comfort as if we are choosing our next meal.  We are told to come to God with absolute surrender.  We are to look to Him accepting all of His commands.  We must follow after Him in ALL things, at All times, and in ALL ways.  If we begin to pick and choose from God’s Word, then we have replaced God’s directives with our own convictions.  God’s Word must be our Convictions.  The difference in a desire and a conviction is that a desire is a wishful attitude and a conviction is a determined objective.  When it comes to the Word of God which is your attitude?  Is His Word your wishful desire, so long as it aligns with your desires?  Is it your life convictions being obedient in ALL things?  God commands and expects absolute surrender to His ways!  May we live in absolute surrender to God today!

Pastor Ric

An Encourager

There are certain people in our lives that whenever we get around them they seem to brighten our days, and even our lives. One of those is for me is one of our dear saints, Zel Huskey. There are several attributes which Ms. Zel possesses that makes my day better whenever I am around her.  First, there is rarely a time when you are around her that she is not smiling. Her smile seems to be contagious.  This seeming permanent smile is not one which is fake or manufactured.  I believe wholeheartedly that her smile is generated from the inside.  She has a way of looking optimistically at even the difficulties of life from a positive point of view.  When I leave I am smiling outwardly and inwardly.

The second thing which is so endearing about Zel is how she makes you feel as though you are the most important person in the world to her.  From the moment she sees you she offers genuine compliments and praise.  Once again, I do not sense there is anything fake about her words, nor do I believe she is offering praise manipulatively.  She genuinely speaks words of affirmation if not words of prophecy.  By prophecy I mean she says this is what I want to believe about you.  Here is a woman whom could have all the reason in the world to be down and depressed yet she chooses to be upbeat and encouraging.  How can one not leave her presence without feeling better about whom he is or life in general?  She is a true encourager.

We find another example of an encourager in the New Testament by the name of Barnabas.  In fact, his very name means exhorter or encourager.  We see this in several examples in the book of Acts.  First, Barnabas encourages the disciples to trust Paul for they were doubtful of him based on his previous reputation as a persecutor of the early church and Christians.  However, in Acts 9:26-31 we see where Barnabas brought Paul before the disciples offering them words of assurance that Paul had experienced a conversion experience on the road to Damascus.  Later, in Acts 11:19-26 Barnabas is sent to the outer regions of Antioch to encourage the early converts to hold true to their faith in Jesus Christ, even in the face of persecution.  Then finally, in Acts 15:36-41 Barnabas and Paul have a disagreement over whether to take John Mark with them on a missionary journey.  Paul remembered how John Mark had abandoned them on a previous journey in Pamphylia.  Barnabas believed in John Mark strongly and would not abandon him.  In fact, Barnabas and John Mark embarked on their own missionary journey to Cyprus while Paul departed for Syria and Cilicia with Silas. 

In each of these accounts Barnabas believed in either a group of people or an individual and made sure that he offered words of consolation and encouragement.  That is what I see in Zel, a special person who believes the best in people and seeks to bring it out.  I thank God for people like Zel, they are God’s gift of encouragement to each of us.

In closing, what type of person are you?  Are you a Barnabas and Zel or are you one who leaves discord?  God has called each of us to be instruments of peace and righteousness.  While we are human and will fail at times, we must seek to be God’s encouragers here on earth.  Paul told the church at Thessalonica to “…Encourage one another and build one another up…” (1 Thess. 5:11) 

In His Steps,

Pastor Ric

Tough Issues

This past week the President of the United States made history again.  This time he became the first sitting President to official endorse the issue of same sex marriages.  Since then there has been much discussion on the matter from the family dining room to board rooms and from the news analyst to ministers of the Gospel.  Much has been discussed about whether this was a political move to garner additional campaign funds and support or whether there was another motive.  Regardless of what the motive was of the President, the proverbial elephant in the room has been recognized.  In fact the social media outlets have been lit up with people weighing in on both sides of the issue.

The greater question of this controversial debate is not what the public opinion is but what God’s directive on this matter is.  The President has stated that his stance has been one which has evolved over the past few years.  He additionally has stated that according to scripture we should seek to live by the Golden Rule.  To address this we must understand that one matter is very clear when interpreting scripture; we are to never proof text in formulating a theological basis for our position.  Instead, we must constantly look at the theme of what the scripture teaches us on matters which some may consider being a “gray issue.”  While we are to treat one another as we would want them to treat us, we cannot ignore the facts of the scripture which teach that homosexuality is not God’s intended plan for sexuality and relationships.  This is seen in numerous examples throughout the scripture.

To address this topic, as well as other sensitive and difficult issues, I will be preaching a series for the next several on Sunday mornings beginning May 20.  While the issue of homosexuality is one of the issues I will address there are other topics with similar polarization abilities.  As we approach these topics I want us to look at them from the perspective of what God says about them, as well as how we as Christians are to respond toward individuals who embrace these topics in a different manner than we do. 

While I have several topics selected I would love to hear if there are any specific issues you would like to know what the Bible says regarding these sensitive or seemingly “gray areas.”  If there is a particular topic you would like discussed, please feel free to email me that topic at hogheaven@fbcflorence.com or simply drop me a line to the church address.  Although there is a limited time for this series, I would like to address the ones which are the most pressing or garner the most interest. 

I covet your prayers and support as we look to these topics over the next several weeks.  May God speak to us clearly regarding His views but also in how we should treat each other regarding these topics. 

Pastor Ric   

Thanks Mom!

This weekend is a special day we have set aside to celebrate that special woman in our lives, our mom!  Several years ago I ran across a poem by a woman named Marcie Zitz that really typifies who moms are to many of us. The poem goes like this:

A Tribute To Moms

Moms are special people!

Moms get up in the middle of the night to scare off monsters.

Moms get up in the middle of the night to tend to a sick child.

Moms may want something for themselves, but they always put their children's needs first.

Moms give unconditional love even when their children mess up. (A special thanks to my mom for this one!)

Moms take their children here, there, and everywhere even when they would rather take a long bubble bath.

Moms have amazing patience even when their four-year-old whines all day.

Moms get excited over a special gift of a dandelion.

Moms take care of everyone when they are sick, even if the Mom is sick herself.

Moms have a way of making a child feel better even if the whole world seems to be against them.

As I read this I remembered the many times that my mom sacrificed her needs for mine, put aside her desires for mine, and even gave up her personal time to make sure everything in my world was right.  This typical example of a mother’s behavior is best exemplified in the last chapter of Proverbs which has come to be known as the description of the Virtuous Woman or of Noble Character.  While as men we look at this chapter and see a description of what a woman should be to her family, too often women look at it and see a description of what they perceive they are not or where they are lacking.  However, when I think of my mom and the mother of my children I see so many traits explained or detailed in this great chapter.  While mom’s often see their weaknesses I trust we always see their strengths.  While moms tend to downplay their sacrifices, I pray we never miss the opportunity to offer thanks and praise to them.  While moms often would rather us not make a great fuss over them, we would be remiss in speaking of their great accolades.  To this let me quote the writer of Proverbs by saying, “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”  (Pr. 31:29) 

Make sure you express to your mother, and if applicable, the mother of your children your love (agape) and appreciation for all they have done, continue to do, and shall do.  Moms, we love you and thank you.

Pastor Ric

The Demented Dentist and David

This past week I read an article on a news website that really started me thinking, especially in light of some of this past week’s daily readings from our Chronological Read the Bible Through Plan.  The article dealt with a dentist from Poland who had recently been dumped by her boyfriend.  Although there probably is much more to the dumping than the article told it seems that the lady dentist was not too happy with how she had been treated by her ex.  However, she told herself to be professional when he scheduled an appointment with her for a toothache he was experiencing.  Unfortunately for this jilting lover his ex could not contain her emotions once she saw him lying in her dental chair.  She proceeds to give him a heavy dose of anesthetic and removes not just the aching tooth but all of his teeth.  Afterwards she wraps his jaw heavily with bandages and sends him home with the advice you now need to see a specialist.  The man said, he knew something was afoul when the numbness began to wear off at home and he could not feel any of his teeth.  On two side notes, the dumped dentist face charges of medical malpractice and the leaping lover’s new girlfriend broke up with him saying I can’t date a man without any teeth! 

Now I must confess the sadistic side of me finds this story rather humorous in a twisted sort of way but as a Christian I ask myself a few questions.  First, while I might not have gone to this extent to let someone know how they had hurt me, what would I have done?  How would I have reacted or treated them.  Secondly, even if I had not acted improperly, would my heart have been pure towards them?  Would I have had malice, bitterness, hatred, or disdain in my heart?  Jesus taught in His Sermon on the Mount that if we hold anger in our hearts toward someone we stand in judgment before God just as the one who has committed murder.   Too often we act out improperly or hold grudges in our hearts when someone has said improper things toward us, talked about us behind our backs, or simple slighted us.  However, Jesus commanded us to turn the other cheek when offended but often that is hard to do.  I remember the words to a popular song several years ago by Christian artist Steve Camp which said, “It’s hard to turn the other cheek when the cheek is already bruised.”  Ouch!

Along the lines of this notion of refusing to give into retaliation versus forgiveness one of the readings earlier this week from our Bible Plan told the story of how King David treated Absalom when this young man, who was also David’s son, led an insurrection against him to the point of trying to kill his father.  However, the revolt did not fare well for Absalom for during one of the battles while riding his mule through an orchard of trees he got suspended by his head from a tree.  One of David’s mighty men named Joab went to the helpless Absalom and thrust three spears in his side killing him.  When news of this thwarting of the insurrection by the killing of Absalom reached David he did not rejoice in his safety nor did he even hint of a thought such as, “That will show anyone who tries to come against the king.”  Instead, scripture records in 2 Samuel 18:33 that the king was deeply moved and went to the gate chamber and wept.  David was stricken with grief in that his son, though his enemy, was killed.  Later in the same verse David laments that he wishes that he had been killed rather than Absalom.

My prayer is that I too would have the heart of compassion and benevolence which David displayed when he was faced with dilemma of revenge or forgiveness.  David did not seek restitution; in fact, he did not want harm to Absalom he wanted restoration.  This week if you are faced with a situation where you must choose between forgiveness or anger and hatred ask God to give you a spirit of kindness toward all people.

In His Son,

Pastor Ric